Country Article / Postcards
How to be a Good Guest in Thailand
Date: 07/20/2006
While many Thais are learning to speak English, some in the service industry--waiters, taxi drivers, hotel staff, and bartenders--are not fluent. As few foreign visitors can speak Thai, misunderstandings often occur. The traveler will repeat himself, raising his voice--and, in some situations, shouting. Losing your temper and raising your voice is considered impolite anywhere in the world, but the Thai people find this behavior uncultured and degrading. Instead, repeat yourself calmly and vary the sentence structure until understood.
On the itinerary of many visitors to Thailand is a trip to one of the temples, or wats. While Buddhism is a tolerant religion, there are some basic guidelines when visiting a temple. With the often unbearable heat and humidity of Thailand, many choose to wear T-shirts and shorts. While that is acceptable almost everywhere, women should not take offense if asked to wear a wraparound shawl and sarong before entering a temple. Feet are considered dirty in Asia, so remember to remove your shoes before entering a temple, house, and even your beachside villa.
With the exception of the Middle East, nowhere is the male ego more obvious than Asia. And while some Western women balk at the idea of lowering their head and body when walking between men or in front of a crowd, in Thailand it is considered a sign of respect, and is practiced every day.
If you happen to be out at 6 p.m., you are likely to hear the Thai national anthem played from loudspeakers. You will notice the Thais pausing in a show of respect for the king. The King of Thailand is the longest serving monarch in the world, and revered in Thailand. The royal family is considered sacred and should not be ridiculed. Not only will you lose the respect of your Thai friends, you could be charged for lese majeste. Not standing at attention during the national anthem is considered a rejection of a much-respected institution.
While there are many aspects of Thai culture that may shock and even dismay foreign visitors, the overwhelming generosity, kindness, and hospitality of the Thai people will win you over. One thing is for sure--the next time a waiter snarls at you in New York City, you will reflect with fondness on the smiling waiter from Bangkok. Even if he did screw up your order.
Robert Davis
For International Living
Rate this Postcard:
Rating: /5 ( votes cast)